It's been an emotional week for several reasons. We're getting through it and things are ok, but when emotions are heightened it's easy to overreact and think too deeply about things. I do that anyway, so this week has been tough.
I like to think that I'm a good friend to my friends. I try to be as supportive as I can, and try to understand where they're at and how they're doing, but sometimes you try to be the best friend you can be and you suddenly realise that it's more than likely been for nothing, as your 'friend' doesn't really care about how you're doing, where you're at or how you're feeling. For some reason it doesn't seem to matter, and your 'friend' has moved on and left you wondering where you went wrong. It's a sadness.
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crikey, Di, this all sounds horrid?
hugs
It all sort of crept up on me Claire. We've had a bad week, nothing to do with the 'friend' thing, but when you need your friends, it's hard when you realise that they don't really care a jot. Thanks for the hug x
Had a few friends like that myself, want to meet for a coffee? Hugs x
Thanks Linda, yes that would be nice. We have a really busy week next week, things that have to be done, but after that would be great. Thanks for the hug! xx
okay, give me a nudge as my memory aint what it use to be :-)x
I'm sorry that you are feeling bereft of a friendship you thought you could lean on. I had a very similar experience a few years ago. It took time but the rift has mostly healed. Some things are worth saving. I hope the sun comes out for you again soon.
Hugs from here!
KK
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